Pickle: Relationship with the In-Laws

After a weekend with my In-laws, I was inspired to start my week talking about the relationship dynamics of what will be your new set of parents. I have known my in-laws for years but spending time with them without my husband, well this weekend was a first!

I must say that I am so blessed to have such a wonderful relationship with my new parents and I love them so much! The thing that I learned is that I probably put more pressure on myself to impress them or make them feel comfortable than I needed to. I really didn't need to stress. They already love me. We had fun together, and while I wasn't the best hostess (I can't cook so we ate out every night) it was still a wonderful time that I feel lucky that I got to have it. I am always with my husband around them and this time I got to have them to myself. It really was nice! 

My 2nd mom!

The Pickle: Impressing the In-Laws

The Solution: I learned that in my efforts and stress to want to impress them by being the best daughter-in-law on the planet I only wasted my time. I defaulted to me being myself and we had a good time. Lesson learned.

Be yourself.

They already know who you are (or if they don't) they know their son. If he loves you, they should love you too, just the way you are.

And if they don't like you and you can't get along, still keep being yourself. Never compromise who your are. Your man doesn't want to marry you for who they want you to be. He wants to marry YOU!

I guess today's pickle was more of a life tip! Have a wonderful Monday!

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. - Ephesians 2:10